When everyone around you is blossoming except you.

A certitude of life is, life is not an easy job until you take the charge of your own life. You know there will be n number of failures in life related to your work area, your studies, your precious love life maybe your family members  start judging you the list is endless and you know it.

When everyone around you is blossoming expect you.

But,You and me know sometimes there aren't always explanation as to why you are lagging behind when you know you aren't working any less than anyone else around you.
The situation indeed is unfair but,
YOU IN NO WAY CAN ACCEPT THE SITUATION , tell yourself now that you won't allow yourself to accept the situation.

Maybe the people around you are five steps ahead of you and the fact that you are feeling bad, signifies you have observed that the people who never even worked 10% of what you do are ahead. Don't feel bad or alone life has been the same way for every generation that has ever existed. So take the responsibility of yourself, if life is not taking you to the top when you are giving 90% or maybe in some cases no results even after 100%, work even harder and give your 200% and make your life happen.

The key to be 10 steps ahead in the future of people who are 5 steps ahead of you now is:

When everyone around you is blossoming expect you.



  • Being stubborn about your dreams and goals.
  • Greedy always for the life you dream while your asleep and when you are wide awake.
  • Never a settler for anything less than what will make you feel like king of the world, you should be the best in your eyes. Be your hero and stop expecting anything from anyone you know. You are enough for yourself.
  • Indifferent to negative company and negative thoughts.
  • Hardwork is the essence of any victory and brings respect in your own eyes


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