How to work with the coworker you dislike


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Workplace is an area that gives you, your inventive, ingenious reflexion and you wouldn’t want to mess it up especially because of  a coworker you dislike.

How to work with the coworker you hate




Working with someone you don't get along well with can be cumbersome. The few tactics that your organisation train you with are team work, interpersonal skills, communication skills, negotiation etc so you can coordinate well with your colleague.

Your organisation wants you to gel with every other human in the organisation for better yield  but there is this one particular coworker, colleague whom you don't like as much.

 Well  you are not alone, there is not one person on planet who is in love with everyone at the work system. Humans are the social animal yet a very competitive being that might be a reason that  this person is annoying to you or for other reason.
  
Let me first console you that your dislike for this coworker can never be permanent either you will get used to this person and who knows! you eventually will end up on good terms with him and if not, well your organisation hires a good number of people and you will always find another coworker, whom when you notice you will realize that the coworker you dislike is a Christmas gift.

Remember it's just a phase you can't dislike anyone for long.


FOR THE  TIME BEING DOWN BELOW ARE SOME TIPS THAT WILL HELP YOU KNOW HOW TO WORK WITH A PERSON YOU DON'T LIKE SO MUCH.

How to work with the coworker you dislike




  • First and foremost reason is remember the reason you go to work for, YOUR CAREER.
          Don't jeopardize your career  because of your likes and dislikes towards a coworker.
  • Remind yourself each day the goals you had set to achieve before you met that person.
  • If you don't like your coworker, just limit yourself  to have conversations with him just about work that will eliminate any kind of annoyance to you and that coworker will know that you are there just for work and he might even withdraw and have a very professional relationship with you.
  • Go for a coffee just incase there is scope where you can solve things by having a discussion with that coworkers.
  • Improve your relationship with other collegeaus so you can discuss the issue and find a sound and healthy way to sort the inconvience at workplace.





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