Bullying | Making Fun


Bullying or making fun is a disgusting unnecessary drama that has been experienced by everyone at some point of life. For some it lasts for a longer period of time and for others it is just a matter of a day or two. But be sure even your bullies have been bullied at some point in life.

Bullying | Making Fun


Here are some factors that allow others to bully you:

  • Non acceptance 

Bullying | Making Fun

 Not loving and accepting yourself for some lame reasons like acne, a not so plump lips, a "D" graded report card, an anti genius brain  or anything that is not so "conventional".  How does any trait of yours stops you from giving your heart to yourself. People are always going to question you for you being different, understand yourself and adore it so much that even others start loving it voluntarily . If you are playing it too safe and following the crowd and considering their actions as a syntax that you must follow, is not going to make you stand out in the crowd. 


  • Seeing other's greatness before you 

Bullying | Making Fun

 Praising the qualities that others possess is not wrong, infact that reflects you are a sane healthy person that can adore other person's work but, when you start to suppress and judge your personality that is what makes you neglect all the good in you. Hug yourself first even when you see the most perfect person in world

  • Lack of respect for yourself 
Bullying | Making Fun


Why in this world you have to be the person who respects you the least. Why can't you treat yourself with at most respect and set it as a protocol for others to treat you. Before expecting it from anyone else gather the time and explore your beauty and respect yourself.



Things you should do when someone tries to bully/ make fun of you.

Bullying | Making Fun

  • The LOOK

 Most of the time the confidence you wear on your face is more intimidating than the clothes you wear. Carry a confident look on your face and act casual to tittle tattle of the rattlebrains.

  • LAUGH it off

You know when you get affected and get upset or react violently to the hopeless bullies, it gives them satisfaction however when you laugh and not give much attention to their worthless words they might just stop finding joy in bullying.

  • Reply with confidence

If it is  a situation where you think you can laugh with them and just give a little response in the same funny way to them like they did, then you may.

  • Talk to someone 

Talk to a person whom you trust the most about it. Communication is the biggest remedy in tough situation with the right person. 



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