If you just broke up!!





Breakup is one of the many barbaric terms in the dictionary, isn't it. Well the truth is NO, you just have to believe the saying "Whatever happens happens for good". I know the pain is severe right now especially when you are still in love and it seems really tough at the moment but as the time will pass I promise you will realize how much you have grown because of that breakup.

One life and nature has blessed us with a million relationships with a gazillion people. This is the time when you give your time to the other relationships or who knows this happened because you had lost a relationship with yourself. Live the relationship with yourself by taking care of yourself, its time to be a little spoiled,lol!

In fact make a planner of all the things you are going to do according to you now but before that follow these rules :
If you just broke up!!


  • Not checking the messages of your ex - this is the thumb rule if you want to be you again.
  • Not relating every little instance that happens to the instances you have had with your ex.
  • Most important rule - BE SELF OBSESSED BABY!!!!!!!!!!
If I were you these would have definitely been on my planner -

Well it took me a little more than half an hour to really think what would I really do. Okay, so I have made this list keeping in mind that I will try to achieve the harder and the greater things which I never managed to achieve and sprinkling some time for the fun things I love to do.


1.Waking up at 5:30 am :

If you just broke up!!

 Call me crazy for putting this at the top of my list but I never manage to wake up before 8 in the morning and for the few no of times that I somehow was awake early in the morning I was able to do so much more than the other days that it would automatically become a special day. Those are the days when I claim myself to be the queen of my life.

2. Quitting phone for the first two hours after waking up:
If you just broke up!!

Milennial or not everyone is so engaged in using the phone and I would love to give up this addiction to be more present and utilise the time in a better manner

3. Perfect body goal: POSSIBLY ABS
If you just broke up!!


Have you ever come across those videos where people work for a certain time on their body.  They work so passionately and even though the journey seems tough but the result seems super fascinating.
If I ever started working out that sincerely I would love to work on my abs.

hmmmm then what else would be on my list:

4.Oh yeah call me crazy again but I would join a LIBRARY.

If you just broke up!!


I love to read a lot and now that all my time is mine I would love join a library and read a thousand novels and also focus on my studies more effectively and achieve what I have been studying for.


Accept it or not but a lot of time is dominated by the thoughts about your relationship the maybes and the ifs along with the buts take out a lot from your time.Also, your partner can take a lot from your time but now the case is different so utilize it differently.




These were some of the things from my list and if you like the idea comment down below what your planner will consist of .








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