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A certitude of life is, life is not an easy job until you take the charge of your own life. You know there will be n number of failures in life related to your work area, your studies, your precious love life maybe your family members  start judging you the list is endless and you know it. But,You and me know sometimes there aren't always explanation as to why you are lagging behind when you know you aren't working any less than anyone else around you. The situation indeed is unfair but, YOU IN NO WAY CAN ACCEPT THE SITUATION , tell yourself now that you won't allow yourself to accept the situation. Maybe the people around you are five steps ahead of you and the fact that you are feeling bad, signifies you have observed that the people who never even worked 10% of what you do are ahead. Don't feel bad or alone life has been the same way for every generation that has ever existed. So take the responsibility of yourself, if life is not taking you to the top when

Confidence is the ineluctable desire of any human. Confidence is walking down the hall and not giving a damn about what people see in you and how they judge you. A person’s level of confidence is not driven by what other people think of the him, it’s affected by his own judgments about him or when his judgments about him is highly dependent on the judgments of others.  Why to give that liberty to anyone, why to let any other person decide your level of confidence. We know that this entire concept   has three levels, namely; Over-confidence Confidence Under confidence or lack of confidence.  People have gone through each of the three levels and so have I. Here are three instances of my life that display the three levels of confidence. Over Confidence It was summer of 2009; I went to a resort with my family for vacation. It was a beautiful hill view resort with a prodigious garden area, a beguiling dinner hall, swimming pool, lush luxurious greenery,

Bullying or making fun is a disgusting unnecessary drama that has been experienced by everyone at some point of life. For some it lasts for a longer period of time and for others it is just a matter of a day or two. But be sure even your bullies have been bullied at some point in life. Here are some factors that allow others to bully you : Non acceptance    Not loving and accepting yourself for some lame reasons like acne, a not so plump lips, a "D" graded report card, an anti genius brain  or anything that is not so "conventional".  How does any trait of yours stops you from giving your heart to yourself. People are always going to question you for you being different, understand yourself and adore it so much that even others start loving it voluntarily . If you are playing it too safe and following the crowd and considering their actions as a syntax that you must follow, is not going to make you stand out in the crowd.  Seeing other's

  Age-The world knows what unambiguous purpose of age is. Age is a concept developed to have knowledge about the period of your wonderful existence on earth, measured by a number, thereby giving you a flash of remembrance on the successful completion of a circle round the sun in your journey.   How the concept of age is actually perceived?   More often than not, age is misapprehended as a measure to know the time you stop feeling young, check for wrinkles, age spots, eligibility check to get married and another ginormous reason to worry, like life doesn’t stock enough reasons to worry. Let it be significant just to the analyst of economy who check for dependency ratio and other related study. Check the list below of  the things to do, to stop worrying about age. Lionize every wrinkle. Wrinkles, spots, pimples, scars are the embellishment you  must carry with pride. It would be really boring to have a stagnant face for life and u ntil you a

Lost hope -Hope is a prodigious term in the human dictionary. Perhaps, It’s a word more significant than success because hope is something that keeps you moving forward and keeps you working hard for the desired rise. Whereas, success is the reward of sticking by your hopes.     When a person feels depressed or loses hope he is often guided by other people, not forgetting to mention in a much furious and callous manner, to get up and put the life together. But, if you are someone who has lost hope, you would know it’s not as unchallenging as one might assume it to be. People asking you to be sparkling are not wrong but, it takes a lot of work to get out of the cage of hopelessness and can’t be done without the help of the person you see when you stand infront of the mirror. The good part is you know the reality that, it will take courage to start over and come out of the dark place, life has pushed you in.  So, just tell yourself that it’s going to take ti

How to get along with coworkers | Work area Relationship. Workplace is an area that gives you, your inventive, ingenious reflexion and you wouldn’t want to mess it up especially because of   a coworker you dislike. Working with someone you don't get along well with can be cumbersome. The few tactics that your organisation train you with are team work, interpersonal skills, communication skills, negotiation etc so you can coordinate well with your colleague. Your organisation wants you to gel with every other human in the organisation for better yield  but there is this one particular coworker, colleague whom you don't like as much.  Well  you are not alone, there is not one person on planet who is in love with everyone at the work system. Humans are the social animal yet a very competitive being that might be a reason that  this person is annoying to you or for other reason.    Let me first console you that your dislike for this coworker can ne