Reasons to love yourself


The first thing that comes to my mind is, if you are searching reasons to love yourself then, you belong to that  class of human beings who were raised to be kind, empathetic, sympathetic  and one that always  find good in others and probably have been doing things as others like it and you never gave much thoughts to pamper yourself and see the beautiful you. 

A colossal reason that stops people from loving themselves is looking for validation. What they don't realise is, nobody is sensitive to other person's happiness on the level they are for their own. Therefore, its a waste to depend on the permission to love yourself that comes from a different homo sapien.

Reasons to love yourself




Looking for validation from others, is going to make you stumble, when you try to walk on the path of loving yourself.





While you are exploring the internet to find atleast a few reasons to love yourself, there are a million in your own headspace hovering unappreciated. Every sane action of yours is a reason to love yourselves.


Down below are some of the candid Reasons to love yourself 
  1. You are the person who wakes up and brushes their teeth. Do you know how painful it is when a dentist works on your teeth.
  2. You are the person who eats breakfast, dinner, supper so that your tummy doesn’t stay hungry.You think anyone else is going to make that effort for you.
  3. You are the person who stayed awake late at night to pass the finals or to complete an office presentation nobody did that for you. You did it, YOU.
  4. You have helped and calmed yourself in miserable times.
  5. You complained to your teacher or mom when a kid tried to dominate you when you were little, you protected yourself.
  6. You are the only person who wants great things to happen to you ,you are your true well-wisher.
  7. You are the only person who has never ever judged yourself  for your ways and made opinions.
  8. You are the person who felt the only deserving candidate in a beauty contest is you even if TOM CRUISE AND JULIA ROBERTS participate in the same contest.
  9. YOU are the person who has built memories for yourself to cherish when you are 90.
  10. You are the person who has tried to work in the past so you can have a happy future ,even if you failed you wanted your good and tried.



Reasons to love yourself


In every situation of your life you are the only person who has done things for yourself like noone else could have or would want to.You are the one taking care of you, your moods, your comforts, your needs and willing to devote time to make your life better so don't keep yourself  from appreciating you, for all the good work you do for yourself. Don't hold back, thank yourself and hug yourself tight everyday because you are the nicest person to yourself and acknowledge everyday the reasons to love yourself.

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