Why people stay in a bad relationship? | Unhealthy relationship | Reasons why you stay in a toxic relationship

Love is barbaric.

If that’s the definition you are carrying in your highbrow mind and naïve heart because of the actions and reactions of your soul mate who particularly is ripping off your soul then “ yes, you are in a bad relationship”.

Here are four reasons as to why you decide to stay in a bad relationship when you really should NOT :

1.       Afraid of being alone.

This is the ruling reason you are giving to yourself to hail in an unhealthy relationship. Obviously you have spent a good quantity of time with this person and you get haunted by the idea of being alone when this toxic relationship gets over. You start ranking your current state with your future state somewhat like this –“ Okay my situation with my love is bad right now but DUN LEAVE cause it’s going to make my future a superlative degree of bad which is worst”.

2.       You still love your partner

You know, you really are a nice person and the result of rigorous military level training that you have given to your heart and soul is so tremendous that you probably close your eyes really tight when a hot good-looking  opposite gender crosses your way.

And when your partner is swinging their booty on the dance floor to impress a person who is certainly not you, you are talking to yourself -“Well I am doing my part so if he cheats atleast I would know that I was true to this relationship and anyway he might not even cheat, God is with me”

       Well clearly God is with you and watching how you are not in your senses.

3.      Financial issues.

Money is undeniably an aspect that determines how good or bad your living standard is going to be and you depend on your partner to make you, money happy.

Ofcourse! nobody has told you how many options are out there to earn your own money irrespective of your education degree. Noone told you that the world is not running out of the people, who are not even graduates however, they are making money more than the most educated people in the world.

4.       For the future you had decided with your partner

It was one fine day when you and the bacchanalian pilot of your unhealthy relationship was so much in love that you had decided to have six baby in your wonderful future but your partner wanted four and VOILA there was the birth of your fictional future. You have already googled how many different  variety of gender reveal parties are feasible and you have practiced the steps of “baby mama dance”  and since you have just started to notice that the adjective to your relationship is unhealthy  or toxic or just bad, any last minute change in your fictional future just seem horrifying even if that mean you forcing yourself into a low quality relationship.

Any of the above mentioned reasons is not good enough for you to be not fair to yourself and be clingy to a person who doesn’t deserve you even in 100 kms of diameter.